Being a good partner is not the kind of job that you need to do much efforts just to please your partner. Being a partner is being there for them without doing anything, even the rest of people that surrounds them walks out, your presence and being there for your partner should be enough if she/he really loves you. A good partner always understands and sacrifices as long as you can and sometimes tolerate their will, bad habits even tantrums and look like a fool in front of people.
Foolishness arises when you are in-love, even you get so much hurt. You think that there's no tomorrow for you, but still you found your self beside your partner in-spite of all. But I can't blame you, you're just in love, you're just doing like someone whose really in-love, gave them all, sacrifice, push your self to continue and find more reasons to stay. But, if you feel too much hurt and pain than being happy as a partner, then maybe its time for you to think. Maybe its enough and too much! You should know when you need to stop those foolish things, especially when everything is too unfair for you. When you are in-love you should feel the glimpse of heaven, it should be wonderful!. When you are in-love you should always feel happy although we know that we will get hurt because of all the people in this world,our partner is the one who has the capacity to hurt us most. Fight for them when they allow you to fight for your relationship, to save what ever can be save. But if that person has already give up, why will you still?. If your partner push you away by doing stupid things, maybe this is the time for you to give up. If you are crying a lot than wearing a smile, if you are afraid than to be proud of , why are you sill there and suffer those things that you don't deserved?. Maybe this is the time for you to wake up, let go and start to move on. Free yourself from this pain and stop sacrificing for the person who do not deserve all of this from you! that person who you thought is yours will never be yours at all this time.
Move on and let your self be out from this relationship, maybe this is not the right time for both of you to be as a partner. For now all you need is to take care a lot for your self or maybe a care from other people, but from him/her,you have nothing to expect!.Remember, this person only asked you when they just needed you but after that he/she ignore,they will see you as useless. Wake up!
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When your feelings starts to overflow and you give effort and attention to someone or anything, It will be a serious issue of love.