Bakit may mga ganung partner? masyado naman atang mahigpit dahil sa pag-seselos! o kahit anu pamang rason. Know what? kung talagang mahal ka nyan at kung talagang kayo kahit ihelera mu pa jan ang sampung Dingdong Dantes o sampung babaeng hubo't hubad sayo parin babalik yan. Hindi naman masama ang mag selos actually its a manifestation of love, natural yan! pero kung pagseselosan mu ay wala namang kabagay-bagay, like yung taong nagtanong lang at kinausap nya, naku praning ka na! wag sobra, iiwan ka nyan. At kung ibang bagay naman ang pinagseselosan mu, naku! kapraningan din yan!, sometimes you need to enjoy sa mga bagay na masaya sya. Ang partner natin hindi natin pagmamay-ari yan, nandito tayo para mahalin sila at intindihin sila as long as we can and beyond their imperfections, be the reason to their changes whatever they need to change for good. May mga bagay na nandyan na sa buhay nila bago pa man tayo dumating! kaibigan, pamilya at kung anu pang hilig nila sa buhay. Kung hindi naman masama at sobra bakit mu pagbabawalan? hindi ka naman ata napapabayaan! try to enjoy those things that your partner wants to do. Mahalin mo ang mga bagay na mahal nya, kahit partner mo yan may sariling buhay parin yan, may sariling gusto, at hindi lahat ng gusto nia gusto mo at hindi lahat ng gusto mo gusto nia din. Pag-aralan mung gustuhin ang mga bagay na gusto nya, pero kung talagang hindi kaya bilang partner intindihin mu nlng. Mag adjust ka! Be a partner ka sa kanya. At ang partner nagtitiwala at umiintindi dahil nagmamahal. I tell you all this things kasi ikaw ang kausap ko. It should be effortless sayo ito kz mahal mo yung tao.Too much jealous is fatal, everything too much is fatal. and sometimes it will cause a break up at lahat ng nilaan mo at binuong pangarap masasayang lang dahil sa selos. Hindi mo nalalaman na yung relationship na sobrang ayaw mong mawala ikaw na pala ang sumisira. Trust is the weapon to survive, lalo na kung long distance relationship. You should trust to your partner and surrender your heart. Masaktan ka man at least you are in the right way and you know to your self that your just doing enough to be a good and loving partner.
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When your feelings starts to overflow and you give effort and attention to someone or anything, It will be a serious issue of love.